Exploring the Foundations of Personality
Parenting offers us daily moments of wonder—and questions. Why does your child respond so strongly to minor disruptions? Why do specific patterns seem to repeat in their behavior?
The Enneagram World of the Child guides parents to look beyond the surface and explore the deeper forces shaping personality during early childhood.
Understanding the Foundation
We can respond to our children with greater compassion and clarity when we shift our focus from managing behavior to understanding the root forces—emotional needs, attachment dynamics, and the family ecosystem. It’s not about fixing problems but nurturing a space where they can thrive authentically.
Example from the Book:
When a child struggles to share a toy, labeling the behavior is easy. But what if, instead, we ask:
How does this moment shape their sense of trust, safety, and connection?
What emotions or needs are driving this reaction?
By digging deeper, we don’t just resolve a momentary challenge—we help form the flexible, resilient foundations that support lifelong growth.
The Enneagram World of the Child offers insights for parents seeking to raise children with resilience and self-compassion, helping us recognize the subtle yet powerful forces shaping their emerging sense of self.
How do you approach moments of challenge with your child? Share your reflections below!
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